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People 29 comments. Dating Finnish guys, or hopefully, dating a Finnish manis potentially miraculous! Are you dreaming of a relationship with him but have no idea how to proceed? Thanks to the mighty internet and due to my natural background aka one Finnish lady is greeting you here behind her laptopI am here to help. Psst… Add more Finland to your life and follow me on Instagram! Fear not, as I have a lot of experience of Finnish men and know what I am talking about! Errr… that sentence sounded so much better and less misinterpretable in my head.
A small disclaimer, though. I feel that some of the challenges are cultural but other challenges are basic struggles in any relationship. That being said, I cannot but agree that sometimes the cultural differences are very big.
Okay, here is the bad news. In most cases, you must be quite active. Note that he could just reply with a yes or no. Try next a question which cannot be answered with a yes or no. So, without further ado, here is Aleksi. He is one tall, handsome and smart Finnish vlogger. Many of his hilarious and true! You can subscribe to his videos here. In Finland, women can be whatever and live however they choose. Personally, I feel the only boundaries are those which we women make to ourselves. So share your dreams and goals of life. Tell him your bad habits picking your nose, having a specific place for everything in the dishwasher, etc.
He wants to get to know the real you and all sides of you! Be proactive. It is exhausting and annoying to be even in the same room with a sulking person. It just completely sucks all energy out of you. For some reason, we ladies and yes, I also include us Finnish women are the experts in this field. As moping is a colossal turn-off, talk the situation through or opt for some me-time and come back spirits lifted. Ask about his background, traditions, and hobbies.
Even better, if you want to try some of the things he loves. For example, a Finnish man may have a close relationship with nature.
It might be important for him to fish and hike in the wilderness. Even though this might be a little strange or even scary to you, see if you enjoy it too. In the worst case scenario, you are a bit bored but get a nice dose of fresh air. Many other nationalities must feel that Finns are quiet and reserved. It is as genuine and inbuilt cultural norm as the total opposite of being a very talkative, loud and touchy person. Neither style is wrong. Blending into a more communal culture can be quite a shock for a Finn.
Showing support is the best thing you can do. In some countries, girls are taught that they may meet the man of their dreams on whatever quick visit to the store. Thus, they are always prepared and dressed to kill when they go outside.
In Finland, girls are taught the following: The man of your dreams will probably see you in horrible influenza, when you are too drunk and when you are delivering his babies. What I am trying to say here is that a Finnish man will, for sure, love you without any makeup or a fancy wardrobe. Most Finnish men say that their ladies are the most beautiful when they are coming from a sauna, all fresh and rosy-cheeked. Even if you are not together physically for a portion of your relationship, most of these tips will still apply to dating a Finnish man.
Long distance relationships are hard, and often need a tiny spark to keep it alive. My friend Jasmin has created incredible virtual date night packages to help couples in long distant relationships. I have been in a long distant relationship with a Finnish man in the past and a solution like this would have worked wonders for us. Keep in mind that when you suggest this to your Finnish partner that, culturally, they may not be accustomed to a scheduled or creative date.
Encourage them to keep an open mind and enjoy a new type of romance during your virtual date night. Hey, are you looking for more relationship related information about us Finns?
Check out some of the other posts:. the class and jump to Finland with me! Hello there! One blonde, travel-loving, Finnish engineer driving this site. Hei Finnia! I would recommend just letting him know about your feelings. I love your blog. Hei Breanne! My apologies! What a great read. Awww, thank you so much! Kiitos paljon! So i went to dating site and got a message from someone, and surprisingly it was him, how big is the chance of people meeting each other on dating site while we are living in 2 different continents?
I used to think that Finnish guy might be too cold and stiff, but no, he is so warm and lovely. Awww Mitha! I have no words after reading your comment.
You guys need to make your love story into a book. All the best of luck and lo of love for you! Thank you. I actually cannot believe that this is happening to me. Tomi is actually my first love funnily it was an online relationship. We seem to agree on everything and share the same interests.
I have never hesitated to compliment him though. Do you think he might feel something or he just sees me as a friend and i should let things as they are? I have a question! But the day after he was so normal and even seemed not interested in me! Hei Kimia! Thank you for your comment. In terms of general Finnishness, it could be either one, maybe he is shy or maybe it is the alcohol speaking. You could always ask him if you are puzzled.Dating finnish guys
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